Monday, March 7, 2016

What a weekend! - First post from Fruzsi

Finaly I got the time and the inner inspiration to write about my life here, in Narva. By the way, I am Fruzsi, I work here in a kindergarden as an english teacher. But no more facts about me, lets just bring feelings, events and thoughts to to world of this blog.

I spent this weekend alone in town, because my flatmate was in his mid-term training, The truth is that you don't get a lot of time all by yourself, when living with another volunteer. But that's fine like that. You have a special experience after such a long time, that you can spend by yourself. I think when we are alone, truly we never are. You may have no company at home or a specific person to go to a program with, but you are all the time surrounded by others. The same happened with me during last weekend. On Saturday I cooked myself a meal, went to the shop before, washed the dishes, nothing special. But when you are alone, somehow you ( or at least me) start to think differently, you sense your surroundings differently, you just hear better your own thoughts. The more intersting event took place on Sunday. But before I let you know about it, I need to tell the story behind this Sunday morning.

A few month ago I went to sliding with my mentor to a big hill in the near forest. We met there one of her friend, who borrowed us her sledge and we had a lot of fun. Soon we met another friends of this friend. One of them – all of a sudden – started to sing in russian some beautiful folk-song. In a few seconds two other women joined her and they kept singing for 15 minutes. Later they perezented some dance too and got us involved as well. It was a remarkable happening, the power of the songs on the top of the snowy hill, and the sliding with this friend's sledge became so far the best memori of mine. It was completely unexpected and I was in the middle of culture- shock, where I could admire some traditional singing and the beauty of simple human nature.

Later on I found out that this women belong to a group, called Suprjadki (Супрядки ). They collect russian and estonian folk-songs and perform on different occasions. I liked them so much that I decided: I want to join them. I tried to make a contact with one of them, with no result. Time gone by, but I did not want to give up. I wrote to their official e-mail address, and soon I got an answer. I visited a concert in Rugodiv ( house of culture), where they also performed. At the end I had to call the leader, from whom I got the answer to my e-mail. I tolked to her on the phone in Russian, though in our letter we talked in English. She took me to back-stage and kept talking in Russian. Somehow I was abble to follow the main plot of her words, which said it would be very hard for me to join, because they have about 500 songs in thei repertoire, and they learn all of them only after listening, plus all is in old dialect. But I can try and meet them next time. I was so excited about this positive attitude, which did not close doors in front of me, but opened one. So at this Sunday I could visit their rehearsal, which was held in Narva castle. I went to the main desk of the museum, where a lady took me to the room, where I was supposed to meet the group. I had to go down in a narrow and dark stairs, and it seemed quite hopeless to find anybody donw there, where everything just got darker and darker. But I heard noise from the steps above, turned back and find the gate to the room. We had a small chat ( I love to say this, that I had a conversation with people,because it is soo cool to think I could make in in a foreign language. Usually I just laugh on myself when I think of therse few sentence talks as a real conversation, but then I need to admit it, they were real one, and I need to accept the fact, that somewhat I am abble to communicate in Russian and I shall be proud of myself). Later all the members arrived, I took part in the warp-up excercises, listened them to learn new songs incredibly fast, and at the end, when the male members arrived and gave flowers to the women, in the occasion of the following day, international women's day, I recived one too, from the leader, who gave me hers. I said a big thank you and sang a hungarian folk-song to them. They felt sorry I have to leave, but I had to prepare a cake for my mentor's birthday, join the celebration later on, and today another week has started, which who knows what will bring to the sky of Narva.

Ps.: I am sorry, if there is any spelling mistake, or some words does not make sense at all. But today I walked thorough the whole city twice. Once personal issue, the second time to help a dear friend. I also went to work, and after that I went to see a free movie screening at the library. I had a long day. A life of a voulunteer in Narva can be unexpectidly chaotic and happy. Don't miss the chance to read along, and find out more about us!

Thansk for your time, folks!

Fruzsi

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